Friday, February 29, 2008
The Streak Continues...
The only drawback is he now wakes at 5am! But, there is an upside. At least for me. Gil wakes because he's hungry so Kristen has to get up since she has 'the boob'. Dad continues to sleep unabated. How nice is that!
I squeeze in another hour of sleep, wake up, shower, make the bed (because I'm a good hubby) - which I hate doing! - and then I take over while Kristen gets ready for her day. In her defense, she makes my protein shake in the morning. Not her favorite chore either! Ah, the compromise of marriage.
Here is the best part. Gilbert falls back asleep about 7am for a 1 hour power nap, usually in my arms. I put him back in the crib and when he wakes at 8am it is like he's waking for the first time that day.
We get to see those awesome 'morning smiles'. You know those smiles from your child as if they haven't seen you for years and the big ear to ear grin appears. Now that is best way to start the day!
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Motor Boat
Who doesn't like the motor boat? Gil has been doing this off and on for awhile, but I'm always curious what it is that triggers him to do it. Because when Gil decides to do the motorboat, he goes full throttle (get it, motor boat, engine, throttle!).Tuesday, February 26, 2008
The Streak
Instead I'm referring to Gilbert. He's gone five nights in a row of sleeping all through the night. Yippee! His current streak was three, and he'd done that a few times already. What a tease. We'd start to think this was the beginning of a shift in sleeping and then - Boom! - multiple nights in a row of wanting the boob at 3am.
But, five nights. Oh yeah! We have high hopes this streak will become the new sleeping pattern. Kristen still wakes up in the night expecting Gilbert will be hungry, but the last week he has not been in need.
I'm sure, though, but writing this post I've spread bad mojo on our home and he will now revert back!
Sunday, February 24, 2008
Sunday Brunch
We spent the morning in the 'burbs visiting friends. Invited to the home of our friends Brian & KK, we packed up for an early brunch. Of course, with child nothing is too early as we are up by 7am anyway.It was a nice relaxing morning and quite enjoyable listening to Kathryn and Maya (Brian & KK's first) chatter away. I believe the books when they stat girls talk earlier than boys. These two definitely affirm the statistics!
And they played so well together sharing toys and just enjoying each other company. Gil was in full chill mode. He just sat in my lap and took in all the new sights and sounds. After a feed, he was up for some activity so out came the giddy-up 'n go and let the entertainment begin!
I was determined to get some photos of the day, but forgot. In a last ditch effort to get the three kids together, we attempted to prop them up for some quick photos.Gil was already in his carrier and Kathryn had definitely checked out and was ready for her nap. These are the best photos I could manage of it all. Maya just sat and watched all the parents scramble to keep the kids in place and happy, but eventually even she had her fill and just sat up and walked off to do something more interesting!
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Cabin Fever
But seriously, I'm over the weather. Bring on the sunshine and above freezing temperatures. Really. Am I asking a lot?How about temps above zero for a start! I know I have a short walk to work, but with the damn wind chill, my coat and pants are stiff as cardboard by the time I traverse across the city!
Luckily, today could be the start of something good (yeah, right but one can dream right?). With the sun shining and temps just north of freezing Gilbert and I bundled up and headed out for some relatively fresh air in the city.
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
'Bert & Ernesto
One of Gil's favorite toys is Ernie. You've seen Ernie in many pics before as he is the steward of the changing table. I have to give Ernie credit for sticking with Gil. He's been showered numerous times by one of Gil's rainbow pees and Kristen fried his hair in the dryer after a wash. With Ernie's now-tight coiffure, we refer to him as Ernesto; the Spanish Ernie. If I was Ernie, I'd have bolted weeks ago!This picture was taken by Kristen, Gil's nanny. Yep, Kristen. Saves me the hassle of having to remember a new name! But seriously, she's been awesome and Gil has warmed to her immediately.
Read the bib carefully. That has been a reality lately. Especially when he wakes up from naps. The morning wake up aside, Gilbert has been less than cordial to whoever has to handle him. He just seems to be waking up hard and let's you know it. I'm thinking about investing in earplugs! Usually after about five minutes he'll calm down, but sometimes he gets so worked up...
Monday, February 18, 2008
Small Victories
While I'm waiting for the call to start, Gil decided to wake up. Well, partially. He needed to clear the plumbing and was having difficulty. I wanted to get him calmed down and back to sleep before Kristen woke up. Unfortunately, she came in while I was attempting to soothe him. Now, under normal circumstances she'd put him immediately on the boob. You veterans out there know that the sucking motion clears the pipes quickly.
However, I was determined to get him back to sleep since he really wasn't hungry. Well, after a few rounds of anger accompanied by thrashing, Dad prevailed! Gil fell limp and into his usual deep sleep.
Kristen got to go back to bed faster than normal and now I'm going to take my conference call.
VICTORY!
Saturday, February 16, 2008
Night Out
This year we headed out on Friday for drinks and dinner. As for Gil, I suggested one option was to prop Gil up in front of the television with some toys and a few bottles and figured he'd be good to go for a few hours. Heck, he'd probably fall asleep shortly after we left. Kristen peferred another option. So Katie came over for the evening watch.
Our night out was quite pleasing. We started with drinks at Swirl Wine Bar followed by dinner at Aigre Doux. Swirl was full, but not packed. We had a small table in the back by the trio of musicians playing instrumental music. Quite relaxing. We enjoyed some red wine and appetizer and then headed out to our ultimate destination. Aigre Doux is a French-infused restaurant that provided a full dining experience. And it lived up to expectations. I recommend the restaurant.
Having been out a few times now, the anxiety of leaving Gilbert at home has passed. No calls home to check in, nor our conversation dominated by life at home, it truly felt like being out on a date. But like most of my dates, Kristen fell asleep on the couch the minute we got home!
Gilbert's Economic Stimulus Package
Remember when you were in the hospital and some friendly staff member came by the room to start the process for your child's birth certificate and social security card. They give you the option of having the hopsital initiate the process or you can do it yourself.Friday, February 15, 2008
Gilbert's 1st Valentines Day
A low key day at the Johnson abode, we dressed Gilbert in his best red shirt and with Kristen home for the day had the opportunity to take a few photos.He's been a bit of a fuss bucket lately waking up twice a night for whatever reason. Sometimes he's hungry (or claims to be!) and other times just seems ticked off. A few times Gilbert has been so ornery, calming him down has been near impossible. We got our first dose last weekend at the Evenson's (prior post) and his 'moments' have occured at least once a day since then.
We know we're suppose to leave Gil crying in his crib so he can learn how to calm and sooth himself back to sleep. Easier said than done! Nobody likes to hear their child scream. And what seems like an eternity is actually just a few minutes. Add to that we live in a condo building, where we do have to be somewhat gracious to our neighbors. Especially at 3am.Hopefully, it is just a phase and we'll get through it...quickly. Having been spoiled early with full night sleeps or just single feedings, this is stage is totallyinterfering with our beauty rest!
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Daddy Stayed Home With Me Yesterday
Yesterday was a good day. Daddy stay at home with me. We had fun playing. He sigms songs that don't make sense to me. Why can't he follow the words?
I was so excited to have daddy home, I didn't sleep all day! I think he wanted me to nap. Said something about work. What is work? We had good tummy time, and he gave me bottle. Yum! Then we watched this show called Oprah. He tells mommy show is silly, but he watches it a lot when she's not home.
But best part of day was when I got sleepy and we took nap together on couch. Daddy is so warm and snuggly!
Ooh, daddy is coming. Got to go. How do I turn this off?
- Gil
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Urban Gil
Kids clothes run the gamet from thematic and traditional to more recent attempts to make style an option to the typical options of sports, animals, etc.Sunday, February 10, 2008
Party Time
Saturday was spent in the suburbs visiting our friends Jon and Suzanne (holding Gil) to celebrate their daughter's, Fayth, 1st birthday. The party was off the hook. Am I allowed to use that phrase?
Kidnapped by his surrogate grandmother - Jon's mom Georgia (see picture) - she walked around the party with him for awhile which was nice so Kristen and I could eat and socialize.However, as 6pm approached, Gil decided to shut down operations. We attempted to revive him with a fresh diap and some quiet time in hopes he might fall asleep, but to no avail so we headed home.
Saturday, February 9, 2008
Spartan Nation
Today it is just me and Gil. I went out last night to play poker (2nd place, thank you very much!) with the guys, so Kristen gets time to herself today (okay she's at the Merchandise Mart working on a project, but hey, it can't be equitable all the time!).
Instead, I cracked open a man-beverage and some snacks, turned on college basketball and handled raw meat for some grilling tomorrow. Ladies, looking for a good Valentine's gift? Nothing says love like some good marinades and dry rubs. I recommend Penzey's Spices. They have local shops in Chicago, but do mail order. Their spices rock! For dry rubs I recommend the Northwoods, but they have an incredible wide selection. Check them out!Thursday, February 7, 2008
Bellying Up
All new parents think their kids does that one thing that is advanced or ahead for their age. And rightly so, it is your child and you are proud of all their accomplishments. For us, Gil seems to be ahead of pace when it comes to his ability to stand up. Forget the fact he already knows how to operate the computer and the grill!From the start he showed a propensitive for wanting to stand up. Of course, we've been engaging him in activities to further develop his ability. The last two weeks his neck strength and coordination have come together and when we hold his hands, his immediate reaction is to pull up to sit up. However, he likes to pop straight up into a standing position. And once up, he can stand for quite awhile before boredom or fatigue sets in.
In his room we have a step stool Kristen uses as a footrest when nursing. When I'm playing with Gil, I've been using the stool for him to lean on so he can work on his standing coordination and balance. His ability has developed enough now when he is standing he can balance on the stool by himself. And when he does lean on the stool it looks as if he's 'bellyin' up' to a bar.Well, tonight when Kristen went to the gym I thought it would be fun to capture him 'at the bar'. Apparently Gil has his father's affinity for single malt scotch.
Kristen is concerned that between these pictures and the one from the Super Bowl post, a stranger visiting this blog might think we are unfit parents exposing Gil to alcohol. Rest assured, strangers to the blog, we do balance it out with a good dose of television and sugary foods!
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
The Giggle
Yep, Gil is a giggler. He's had his few occasional laughs or giggles the past few weeks, but now we can get him to basically giggle on command. Usually by blowing on his belly or lightly tickingly him on his sides when he's on the changing table.However, Monday was the first day where he giggled voluntarily and without touch from us. We weren't doing anything in particular, but he showed a big smile and let out a fantastic giggle! Made us laugh in response.
His changing table continues to be his 'happy place'. Whether good mood or bad, laying on that soft fuzzy changing pad is an immediate 'change in atttiude' for the little man. He starts to kick, squirm, smile, coo, and most recently the 'motor boat'. I could watch him all day!
Sunday, February 3, 2008
Super Bowl
All I can say is, Goose Island is a quality beer and if you are going to encourage underage drinking, do it in the privacy of your home!
But seriously, Gil never got to the beer, and the pictures on the right captured his just completed dinner that luckily didn't land in my beer!

The Flight Home
Being the cool and calm parents, we smiled and let Gil cry doing our best to be nonchalant about the fact the entire security line was staring at us. Again, I'm sure everyone was hoping they would not be on the flight with that kid!Well, Gil showed no signs of letting up and actually responded to our inaction by turning up the volume on his discontent. We succumbed. Determined not to step out of the growing, snaking security line, Kristen pulled an emergency bottle of formula (I call them 'one-hits'). He scarfed that 2.5 oz like nothing. Luckily, it was enough to get us through the strip search and to the gate where she took Gil to a secluded area for a proper feed.
The flight home was packed solid. Oh boy and oh well, we thought. May Gil repeat his first airplane experience. It was up and down, but the flight was a quick one and we were on the ground, in the car and home before we knew. Actually, we almost got home quicker than our parents did driving from Dallas to Houston! And most importantly Gil picked up his first set of 'wings'!
Big D - Day 2
My parents drove up on Friday from Houston for the weekend. It was a first for them too to have both grandkids together. This was nice as it allowed Carrie, Matt, me, and Kristen to go out for an evening.Now, as part of the trip to Dallas we covertly planned a photo shoot of the six of us to surprise our parents. Well, my mom sniffed out the plan. My dad may have known too, but he never let on. My money is on him not knowing. Regardless, we captured some terrific photos.
The photo shoot was a lot of fun. Unfortunately, Gil has taken to sticking his hands in his mouth. The photograher earned his money capturing moments where it appears as if Gil is smiling at the camera. If you look closely at Gil's photo, you will notice the color of his shirt is a bit darker under the collar. That would be drool.
Regardless, we did get some great photos of the group, the individual families, Gil & Maddie together, and then individuals of the kids. Here are a few!Gil & Maddie
So, a big reason for the trip to Dallas was for everyone to get together, see the new additions, and just enjoy hanging out. For Kristen and me, we were curious how Gil would compare to Maddie simply to observe their differences since Maddie is almost seven months old basically double the age of Gilbert.Visiting Big D - Day 1
We we pleasantly surprised to see a gaggle of kids with their parents and their gear in line for the preboard. So we wouldn't be the only people keeping the passangers awake! Actually, we were all able to spread out and Gil was fantastic on the plane.
2 1/2 hours later we were in Dallas where 40 degrees felt like 80 compared to the negative temps we just departed. My sister, Carrie, picked us up and we headed to her house. There, Gil met his cousin, Maddie, for the first time and both Carrie and myself got to see our respective niece and nephew for the first time as well. Here Maddie and Gil have their first encounter where she dominated him in their first 'stare down'. Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Gilbert's First Plane Ride
But the best part is we get to meet Maddie - my niece - for the first time! Maddie was born on my birthday last year. She's almost seven months old. I can't wait! It will be fun to see Gil and Maddie together. Of course, they'll probably be oblivious to each other, but who cares. It will be fun. My P's are driving up from Houston later in the week so the entire Johnson clan will be together. Oh boy!
So, for those savvy travelers who have taken their kids on plane rides, any sage advice you can offer?
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Back in the Groove
Gilbert changed greatly during my week away. His sounds have evolved and now his range of noises, gurgles, squeals has broadened. As I write this blog he's carry on a fantastic conversation with himself!Thursday, January 24, 2008
Coming Home
But there is no substitute for the joy that awaits me when I get to give the little man a hug! I brought with me a little deck of pictures that I could flip through when I was jonesing for some Gil. And yes, of course, I can't wait to see Kristen! That goes without saying, but I'll say it anyway!
Cheers mate!
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Big Day!
This signals the first real shift back to pre-Gil life; Kristen returning to work. Her business is now official. The paperwork is filed with the State, she's doing design work on her own and now she'll be a contractor for her prior design firm. Lots of good things are happening for her!
From a parent perspective, knowing the shift is coming has been - at times - hard to accept. No matter how good the care is for your child, it is not the same since you are not the person providing it. Plus, giving up the control is probably the unspoken hardest part. Maybe that is why in other countries the maternity leave is so much more extensive.
For example, in the UK it is one year. I've heard in Germany, the leave is as much as three years! And in both cases salaries are paid close to 100% for the entire length. This might not be completely accurate but regardless the US policy of 12 weeks (salary provided is optional) pales in comparison. And remember, prior to the FMLA (signed into law during the Clinton administration), there was nothing concrete. Scary, huh!
Saturday, January 19, 2008
We Survived!
Our first night out and away from Gilbert went off without a hitch. Katie was excellent in both feeding him and getting him to bed. Thanks!
With the evening going so well, we decided to keep it going and did go to Webster's Wine Bar. The place was just as we remembered it, but the menu of food has exploded! Kristen selected three fantastic cheeses and the sliced spicy Spanish sausage I picked was the perfect companion to the large reds we drank. Friday, January 18, 2008
First Date
Gilbert will be placed in the trusty hands of Katie for the evening. How did we convince a young, single girl to give up her Friday night, you ask? Food and the ability to do her laundry for free (apparently public laundramats freak her out!). The bitterly cold weather didn't hurt our case either!
So, what are we doing for the evening. Fine dining, perhaps? A romantic rendezvous at a hotel, maybe? Nah!
We are attending an event held by Nau, a progressive clothier that makes eco-friendly, hip clothing. I learned about Nau through the foundation I volunteer - Taproot Foundation. Nau donates 5% of the profits from every sale to a variety of local and national partners. Taproot is one of them. As a result, I've had the opportunity to get to know the folks at Nau and am often invited to special seminars, parties, etc. the store holds to promote their eco-philosophy.
Tonight is a seminar on eco-friendly and sustainable building materials co-hosted with Ecolect.net. They have developed the first freely accessible on-line database of sustainable materials for architects, builders, furniture designers, fashion designers, and more.
Since this might be of interest to Kristen, we are both attending. Of course, the enticement of free food and beverage at the event was nice too. And 50% all the stores wares!
And yes, if all goes well we are going out afterwards with plans to visit a familiar haunt...Webster's Wine Bar to spend a little one-on-one time together. Kristen has been jonesing for some good cheese and I know she'll get her fill at Webster's!
The question that remains is how many times will Kristen call Katie to check in on Gil!
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
City Playdate
With a sense of structure and some normalcy settling in at Casa de Johnson, Kristen has begun to ease back into her pre-birth activities; working out, seeing friends, enjoying what the city has to offer. For her, a big reason was also the ability to reconnect with past co-workers/friends.I did talk to Gil and he said that he and Ty had a fun time together. A year older, Ty provided Gil some sage advice on how to deal with nannies and baby sitters, eating solid food, and how to hold one's pee until the very minute your diaper is being changed so you can spray mom and dad.
Additionally, Gil said they attempted to address some of the more serious issues facing their generation such as equal access to the sandbox and how television baby models are poor role models for body health issues along with a friendly debate on what is "the ideal nipple". In the picture above, Gil is laughing at Ty's retelling of his famous first pee after eating creamed asparagus story. Saturday, January 12, 2008
Road Trio to the Suburbs
Today we took a road trip out to see our friends - Emily and Derek, along with their two kids - and enjoy the day together. For those of you not familiar, Kristen is the Godmother to their oldest, Taggart. The day was great as the ladies tagteamed for the lunch and we spent the remainder of our time together just talking, hanging out, and being entertained by the kids.Taggart is stringing together sentences quite well, but like all kids whose vocabulary is expanding while enunciation still a challenge it was good to have Emily around as Tag's interpreter!
Cammie (Campbell) will soon be up and walking. She can hoist herself up with ease to stand and climbs, but when it comes to moving north/south she still prefers to go low. But her laugh! She has two; a high-pitch joyous scream that surely dogs can hear within a mile radius and a second; this deep Ha! Ha! Ha! that is crazy funny and totally infectious. I simply laughed in response!
Gil was his usual self. He enjoyed the new surroundings and did his best Stevie Wonder as he head seemed to be on a swivel as it darted back and forth to take it all in. During play time, he seemed to be enamored with both Cammie and Tag as he stared intently at both of them. We ran the entire Gil gamut - feed, sleep, diaper change, fussiness, smiles, and repeat. When it came time to depart when lulled him to sleep in his car seat prior to guarantee a quite ride home!Thursday, January 10, 2008
The Results Are In, Part 2
Gilbert had his two month (okay, more like 2 1/2 month) check up yesterday. His visit can be summed up in one word, GROWING! The typical measurements were recorded and his growth chart is progressive upwards. Here's the results:
- Weight - 13 lbs. 7oz. (up from 10lbs. 11oz.) in the 70th percentile (up from 50th percentile
- Length - 24 3/8 (up from 23 inches) in the 70th percentile (same)
- Head size - Whoa! 16 7/8 inches (up from 15 inches) in the 90th percentile (up from 75th percentile)
However, the big surprise of the visit was the four shots he had to receive for a variety of vaccines to ward off nasty diseases and viruses like Ebola, Avarian Flu, etc. Just kidding! But he did receive four shots and was not at all thrilled about the experience.
The first shot went fine. A little grimace and pout, but he quickly recovered. However, the second shot was fast and in the same vicinity. That did not meet his approval and he expressed his displeasure.
Of course, he calmed down and regrouped only to be stuck two more times in the other leg. By the time all the shots were finished, he was simply pissed and let us know verbally. However, we quickly comforted him by wrapping him up in a snugly outfit (see picture).
The rest of the day seemed to progress nicely with no signs of being upset or side affects of the shots. We even interviewed a nanny and everything went swimmingly.
However, his pleasant demeanor shifted to painful at bedtime. I had just left the condo for the gym when he began to wail in obvious pain from the shots. Able to provide only mild comfort by holding and soothing him with word, he'd relax only to shout out in pain in intervals throughout the evening. Eventually he fell asleep, either from total exhaustion or from finally finding comfort, but the ultimate surprise was he slept through the entire night!
This morning we all woke up and it was back to the status quo. A happy child wanting to play!
Sunday, January 6, 2008
Sleeping Upright
However, in the past two weeks he's finally begun to relax when we hold him against our bodies. Now to the point where he'll actually cuddle up and fall asleep. For me, I love it! Now I can lay back on the sofa, watch a little tele or take a nap myself, and relax my hold without worrying about Gil suddenly arching up and flying off me. Thursday, January 3, 2008
The Best Thing About Waking Up
So, I get up early and get cleaned up. He is typically awake cooing in his crib as he stares at the black and white mobile overhead waiting for me to pick him up. We gather on the couch for some quality face-to-face and I get to enjoy his smiles, laughing, talking, and on occasion farting (this morning, he destroyed not only his diaper, but his onesee and sleep sack. Where does all that poo come from, really?).For the past few weeks his hands and arms have been quite active. We've snapped some awesome photos only to capture a blur of his arms and hands because of the fast movement. He's developing quite the karate chop as he reaches for objects in front of him. However, without his depth perception fully in place yet, it is often 'swing and a miss'. He's whacked both Kristen and I a few times in the face as well as hitting himself on the noggin too.
His favorite item to grab right now is his burp cloth. He loves the texture and often will latch on with both hands, pull it into the center of his body and attempt to put some portion of the cloth in his mouth for a taste test. It is pure joy to watch.If he does grab my fingers, he either attempts to eat them or, on occasion, will pull himself up especially if he's already in somewhat of a sitting position (see the photos).
Tuesday, January 1, 2008
What better way to welcome in the new year...
than to get naked and take a bath! Looking to get the new year off to a good start, we partook in a guaranteed good time for Gilbert. Of course, it is fun for us as well. His balance in his tub has improved dramatically and he's learned how to stay upright by stabilizing his body by placing his elbows and forearms against the sides of the tub. I knew he was a prodigy!
Turns out the bath was the highlight of the day as the rest of it went downhill from there. The little man had a bad bout of rumble-stumble belly and he let it be known he was unhappy. Helpless to sooth him beyond a comforting song or embrace, this lasted most of the afternoon. 









